The first published paper

I got the first paper published today. 

I just want to write down this extraodinary moment and to remenber the beginning for my research career.

I have learned a lot from my tutors for the data analysing, paper writing, contributing the manuscript, response to the refrees and so on.

Many thanks to my tutors and I will always remembered the directions  and help from them.

Travelling

The next travelling is for besiness in Italy. It is an international conference about microfluidics. It is the first year to hold this meeting, on the base of about 2years european conference in microfluidics.

I am looking forward to this tranvelling and sharing my work with other colleagues.

love

For many years, I have not understood the true meaning of love and lover.
I just know how to express myself well before others when I communicate with others.
I just know how to do the real things to show my feelings
But when I encountered the girl who touched my heart and gave me feeling of love, I even did not know how to go on with the feeling and how to maintain the good motion between us.
When I fell in love with the first girl I loved, I threw myself into the vortex of love and she is the best one in my heart.
But as time passed, I found that there were also some or many differences between the real one and the one imagined. When I found that I had to stop this relationship, I stopped it.
But she never went away from my heart. She was, is and will be always in the deep of my heart.
Maybe this is the first I must encountered in the emotion life.
Some years later, that is to say 4 years later, I found that I cound begin a new life and accept a new relationship, but it is a little late.
I even did not know how to love, as I have already been used to the single life. It is difficult for me to do things considering the two people.
Falling in love, breaking up, tasting the wound, burning the emotion in the deep of my heart, finding a new girl, encouraging myself to say hello to the girl, taking care of the girl, asking myself many uncertain questions, thinking the things and emotions and gestions, flatering the girl and doing the things needed^^^^^^^
For a man with high self-esteem, it is hard to begin a new relationship after one failure, especially the first tender love.
Many years later, say 9 years later, some times, that laugh face, that big and talking-like eyes, that soft voice, that small and cold hands, that sexy lip^^^^^ came up to my face. I can not forget her, and will not forget her. And the first love was, is and will be in my heart forever.
But, at the same time, please remember that, man have to and should to live in the real life but not in the memories and the imagineries.
So, work hard for the happy life and the suitable other-half.

love

Don't spend time with someone who dosen't care spending it with you .

Maybe god wants you to meet many people before you meet the right one ,so when this happens , you'll be thinkful.

There willl always be people who'll hurt you , so you need to contiue trusting, just be carfeul .

Be sure to konw who you are before meeting someone new and hoping that person konws who you are.

I love you not for whom you are ,but who I am when I'm by your side.

人的一生会遇到的四个人

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。

第一个是自己,
第二个是你最爱的人，
第三个是最爱你的人，
第四个是共度一生的人.
首先会遇到你最爱的人，
然後体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，
所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，
学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱他，
如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
分开是一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
你呢？找到了第几个？
茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？